Which Personality Type Is Most Likely to Have Said 'I love you' first?
Quick answer
ENFJ (The Protagonist) is the personality type most likely to have said 'I love you' first, at 67%, followed by ENFP (63%) and ESFP (63%). ISTP is the least likely at 20%. Across all types, 46% have.
All 16 types ranked
| # | Type | Have |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | ENFJ Protagonist | 67% |
| 2 | ENFP Campaigner | 63% |
| 3 | ESFP Entertainer | 63% |
| 4 | ESFJ Consul | 58% |
| 5 | ENTJ Commander | 50% |
| 6 | INFJ Advocate | 50% |
| 7 | INFP Mediator | 50% |
| 8 | ESTP Entrepreneur | 50% |
| 9 | ESTJ Executive | 44% |
| 10 | ISFP Adventurer | 44% |
| 11 | ISFJ Defender | 43% |
| 12 | INTJ Architect | 33% |
| 13 | INTP Logician | 33% |
| 14 | ENTP Debater | 33% |
| 15 | ISTJ Logistician | 25% |
| 16 | ISTP Virtuoso | 20% |
Why ENFJ leads
ENFJs are warm, persuasive, and instinctively in charge of everyone’s wellbeing. ENFPs (enthusiastic, spontaneous, and unable to resist a new experience) and ESFPs (fun-first, social, and always where the action is) round out the top three. At the other end, ISTPs are hands-on, unbothered, and drawn to anything with real physical stakes.
Data: personality.fyi’s Never Have I Ever polls, where members answer anonymously and every result splits by MBTI type. Answer this one yourself →
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